“TAKE MASSIVE ACTION!” says the guy at the front of the room. “BABY STEPS ARE FOR SISSIES!”
If I had a nickel for every time I’ve heard or read a self-help guru tell me that I need to take massive action to realize my goals, I’d have even more nickels than I do now. A lot more.
Now, because I’ve made a lot of nickels ignoring most self help authors’ advice, I thought other people might like to hear about a different way of approaching their lives.
Here’s the thing: As I said in my previous post, when it comes to taking action, the advice that you should take massive action is not only hard to define, it’s meaningless.
Let’s say you’re driving an older car. It needs a little lovin’. Lately your lights have been flickering, and a website you’ve read suggests that your alternator isn’t as healthy as it used to be.
Now if finally one day it gives out as you’re cruising down the interstate, do you need to take massive action to fix it? What would that look like, anyway? Would it mean that you immediately charter a helicopter to whisk you to your destination as a dealership replaces the entire car?
Obviously this isn’t practical. And to be fair, I also understand that this isn’t what self-help gurus are talking about. But the problem is, neither are they clear on what they do mean. Well, I am. And here’s what I’d do:
Take appropriate action.
If you don’t have much money, you assess what resources you do have. Maybe you’re not much of a mechanic either. But now you have a problem that can’t be solved by hiring someone to come and help you, because you can’t afford it. Use the tools that you’ve got. You immediately put the Law of Attraction into effect by visualizing a positive outcome to the situation, whatever might be best for you in the long term (not the short term). You find out where you can get a replacement alternator for as cheap as possible. If you don’t have internet access you go to a library if you need to, to learn how to replace it. You scrounge whatever tools you have or can borrow, and you change the alternator. This whole process is going to take some time.
Massive action? To some people, maybe it is. I’d say it’s appropriate, though.
One criteria I would advise you to always use is to make sure your philosophies are scalable. What I mean is, if it’s good for situation A, then use it on situation B. Don’t let your ethics and motivation be dictated by the mood you’re in. If “massive action” means “appropriate action”, meaning that it’s appropriate to the problem in order to get it solved, then great. Otherwise, don’t confuse the two.
It’s tempting to get all fired up and assume you’re going to be a millionaire overnight if you “take massive action”. But you need to figure out what that means, because otherwise it’s too easy to assume that the action you really are taking just isn’t massive enough. This tripped me up for years because I didn’t understand it properly. I’d take what I thought was “massive action”, and I didn’t understand that you have to just climb the steps as they come. I’d sit down to take appropriate action on a project and get discouraged because a little voice inside me would insist that my actions weren’t massive enough. But an airplane on its way up to 30,000 feet has to pass through every single foot of air before that to get there.
You can’t cross a chasm in two small jumps, so don’t be afraid to take a big step where you have to. But keep it in perspective.
The most effective approach is to discover and decide in advance how successful you’re going to be by examining your answer to The Right Question, and you can’t go wrong.